ABOUT ME

I help create a safe space for actors and artists to tell stories and advocate for their boundaries to create honest, authentic art. This work doesn’t just change art, it changes peoples lives.

I am based out of the Midwest, love to read, act, and spend time with my dog, cats and partner, Jay.

TESTIMONIALS

  • “The work you do is so incredibly important. I am impressed by your dedication to your work. You were an invaluable part of this production and I cannot imagine ever working on a film like this without you.”

    —Carrsan T. Morrissey

  • "…I firmly believe that virtually every production would do well to have an intimacy director/coordinator/coach involved."

    — Josh Vishnapu, Artistic Director of Open Door Rep

  • “Exercises that awoke the ability to explore permissions were extremely helpful - finding one’s ability to say ‘yes’ or ‘no’ are powerful tools every director should have, and every actor should experience. I would also say that this isn’t just for “intimate” scenarios or highly dramatic shows: the tools taught translate extremely well to other genres and styles, and are just as necessary there…”

    — Josh Vishnapu, Artistic Director of Open Door Rep (speaking about my Intro to Intimacy for Directors Workshop)

  • “Stephanie Schneider has been a joy to work with. I have never worked with an Intimacy Director before, as I have never really worked with material this mature. She has taught me many things about personal boundaries, the importance of consent, and helping me recognize when my limits are being pushed. I think the most important thing that she’s taught me is that it’s OK to say no. Stepping out of our comfort zones is one thing, but no one should ever feel like they are so uncomfortable that they can’t effectively play their character. And if something would ever cause one of us to feel that way, we absolutely are allowed and more than welcome to say no to our fellow actors and directors. The best way I’ve found to get through difficult scenes, is talking about the scene beforehand. We basically just lay everything out on the table. We don’t beat around the bush, explaining exactly what is going on in the scene, and how it might be difficult to watch or listen to. Being open and honest is the best way to overcome scenes that portray topics that no one wants to talk about.”

    — Charlotte Proctor, Actor